INS:

boundaries

cutting the limb to survive

the Age of Love

mixtape CDs

being mysterious

whiskey & cokes

intuition

guns on tables

lying about butt-dialing

consistent sleep schedules

new lipsticks

Balance

elixirs

OUTS:

wimpiness

beating dead horses

self-pity

cruelty

turning away from love

blacking out

unreciprocation

rose-colored glasses

resistance to change

running late

indecisiveness